HALP! I think I may have done something wrong. After installing LXDE it rebooted into LXDE - was I supposed to pick sda1 as default maybe? I had deleted all the other boot options. 
Sorry it took awhile but I got swamped with work before I could do this.
When you get to the grub install stage, pick the new / partition as the place to install grub. When done, there will be no new boot stanza in the master menu.lst, only in the new installation's menu.lst. Before you can boot to the new installation you will need to boot to the original installation, mount the new / partition, then copy the first stanza from the new menu.lst to the master menu.lst.
I did look at the master menu.lst and it is the same. 
Yup!
Making mistakes is just part of the learning process. I went back and reinstalled to get a feel for the right way.
timeout 10
color black/cyan yellow/cyan
gfxmenu (hd0,9)/boot/gfxmenu
default 0
title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty
kernel (hd0,9)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=LABEL=swap320 splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd0,9)/boot/initrd.img
title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty - BP
kernel (hd0,0)/FM/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=LABEL=swap320 splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd0,0)/FM/initrd.img
#title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty-nonfb
kernel (hd0,9)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty-nonfb root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=LABEL=swap320
initrd (hd0,9)/boot/initrd.img
#title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty-nonfb - BP
kernel (hd0,0)/FM/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty-nonfb root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=LABEL=swap320
initrd (hd0,0)/FM/initrd.img
#title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty(failsafe)
kernel (hd0,9)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty(failsafe) root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot failsafe vmalloc=256M acpi=on
initrd (hd0,9)/boot/initrd.img
#title PCLinuxOS_FullMonty(failsafe) - BP
kernel (hd0,0)/FM/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS_FullMonty(failsafe) root=LABEL=FullMonty quiet nokmsboot failsafe vmalloc=256M acpi=on
initrd (hd0,0)/FM/initrd.img
#title memtest-4.20 - BP
kernel (hd0,0)/FM/memtest-4.20 BOOT_IMAGE=memtest-4.20
#title memtest-4.20
kernel (hd0,9)/boot/memtest-4.20 BOOT_IMAGE=memtest-4.20
title PCLinuxOS_LXDE
kernel (hd0,8)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=linux root=LABEL=LXDE quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=UUID=e1da4c29-17a1-4e79-aa96-0a635a212c48 splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd0,8)/boot/initrd.img
title PCLinuxOS_LXDE - BP
kernel (hd0,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=linux root=LABEL=LXDE quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=UUID=e1da4c29-17a1-4e79-aa96-0a635a212c48 splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd0,0)/boot/initrd.img
Now when I boot there is the LXDE boot screen (with sda1 as default) then the Master boot screen. I can go to boot options in LXDE and make the timer 0 but I am wondering if this is expected. I probably missed a step and suspect you're going to color this line.

Have to go back to work now. Stink.