i have a netbook using kde4 and it has 1 gb of ram
kde4 uses more or less 300 mbs of ram, i have seen it use 700 maximum when editing many images with gimp
i have seen it use maybe 200 mbs of swap, i wasted 3 gbs on swap

sd card is terribly slow, if you want to increase speed in win 7 you need a usb drive, the fastest you can find, sd is really slow, almost making system slower
most sd cards will write at 4 - 8mbps maximum, unless you bought a very fast sd card, most usb flash drives will give you 10, 15 mbs, compared to the ram, this is miserably slow
if you think that your windows 7 needs more ram, you could first try to decrapify it, removing addware, demos, dumb apps form the manufacturer and use ccleaner to deactivate on boot the apps you know you don't need
if you have mcaffee or norton antivirus in it, remove it asap and replace it with avast or avira, anything will be better, improving ram usage and system load drastically
the gadgets on desktop, only leave the ones you really use, the ones you don't, remove them
if nothing of this helps, 2 gbs of ddr2 or ddr3 for a netbook is cheap, 10, 25 dollars maximum
practically all netbooks will accept a 2 gb module, don't waste your money trying to put 4 gbs, the slot won't accept it and will only use 2 of it
newer model of netbooks, mostly amd powered are accepting or being sold with 4 gbs so that is a different story, i assume you have a atom, just as i do
basically to improve your windows experience, if you can, wipe the hard disk and install windows 7 from clean, do not use any disk provided by the company that manufactured the netbook, use a simple, original windows installer and then activate the license, probably by phone, then add drivers and enjoy your decrapified netbook, you will feel it like a new laptop, i did that with a nb505 last sunday, atom 1.66, 1 gb of ddr3 ram