"I just like a basic desktop no frills or "bling" I don't need a cube-fire- wobbly windows-or windows that become paper airplanes so i say "KISS" my desktop.(Keep it Simple Stupid)"
i don't have any of that, kde4 by default comes with very little to no effects and i'm having problems with my video card, but i still miss my wobbly windows

"LXDE had a low learning curve for me Ive used gnome and xfce on other os's"
this is true, it is simple, you don't get lost anywhere
"PCLinuxOS has that "small town feel" to me that I like"
really? with the amount of users and the level of perfection of each iso i don't feel that
maybe a deep simplicity that makes everyone feel welcome with space to grow