if suspend to ram doesn't want to work for you i would change system to suspend to disk, shuts down machine and stores in swap what was on ram to restore later
suspend to ram turns off what it can or what is allowed to, including hard disk but some machines won't turn it off so it will keep spinning, this was common in older machines and some desktops doing this mode and that is why most people preferred a fast boot so they could turn off machine than use suspend to ram or to disk
if you are worried the easiest and most simple thing to do is turn off the machine
to use suspend to disk in kde4 left click on the battery monitor in the task bar
this will call a menu with some options to including a button with a tool in it, it will allow you configure what the system will do when you close the lid on each power condition, battery, connected and low battery