I now have file sharing working with NFS, I will mark this topic Solved. Here is what I did, first I want to thank JohnBoy who stuck with me for two days, whew, and hankcurt who stopped me from doing something stupid. Okay here is what I did to get the NFS file system to work.
I followed the steps first outlined by JohnBoy, however, because of my many previous attempts my fstab file had wrong entries. I entered as root found the old fstab (fstab.old) file, rename the current fstab as fstab.2 and renamed fastab.old to fstab. This was done on both computers.
Then I opened my firewall to allow every thing.
The next few steps were as directed by JohnBoy in one of his first responses to the topic. Now I could see both computers, I set the mount point, did the same on the other computer and puff, I could now share files on both computers. Boy does this feel good after a long fight.
Again a big thanks to JohnBoy and hankcurt.