edit apparently kde4 desktop fx are the culprit. They are gone, and the random crashes are gone.
kde 3.5.10 is on the way. And its the weekend

I have now had seven total hard crashes in about 13 hours usage, with the screen locked up and filled with colorful confetti-like garbage,
once when selecting an item in Konqueror, once when clicking a link in Opera web browser,
the third one clicking the 'back arrow' in an opera session. Two crashes were using kwrite, and timemachine.
Crash #6 was after pressing the submit button on a forum post. All tips appreciated.
So I installed firefox, in case opera was part of the problem. Crash 7 was during a firefox session, so much
for that theory. I looked in some logs earlier, but did not see any mention of impending doom. Time to check again.
Post-install I have used synaptic to install
k3b, audacity, ardour2, zynaddsubfx, linuxsampler, fluidsynth, qjackctl, hydrogen, lame, opera, kde-utilities, streamripper, lastfm, and alien.
Any insights greatly appreciated!
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The following issue was solved:
Trying to launch konqueror from a root shell, gets this error:
konqueror(4807): Session bus not found
KCrash: Application 'konqueror' crashing...
sock_file=/root/.kde4/socket-localhost.localdomain/kdeinit4__0
Warning: connect() failed: : No such file or directory
KCrash cannot reach kdeinit, launching directly.
drkonqi(4809): Session bus not found
It does start OK using the menu-item for konqueror super-user mode
(dolphin menu lacks that option)
Trying dolphin from the same root shell gets a different error:
<unknown program name>(5189)/: KUniqueApplication: Cannot find the D-Bus session server: "Did not receive a reply. Possible causes include: the remote application did not send a reply, the message bus security policy blocked the reply, the reply timeout expired, or the network connection was broken."
<unknown program name>(5188)/: KUniqueApplication: Pipe closed unexpectedly
kwrite gets this one:
kwrite(5294): Session bus not found
KCrash: Application 'kwrite' crashing...
sock_file=/root/.kde4/socket-localhost.localdomain/kdeinit4__0
Warning: connect() failed: : No such file or directory
KCrash cannot reach kdeinit, launching directly.
drkonqi(5295): Session bus not found.
Synaptic starts fine from the same root shell.
Any insights greatly appreciated!