"thing is is that i tried a previous dual layer dvd copy-create image iso file and it took about the same ammount of time on my internal lg dvd player."
please have in mind that the resulting iso could not work as expected(even after 9 hours), it could say that it ended copying but could not be true, broken files or end prematurely
k9copy could help on this case but it seems that the disc have some security measure that doesn't cooperate but still worth a try
k9copy will also create a 4.5 gb iso(if you wish to do this) so you will skip the dual layer step or even create a avi containing the chapters, i haven't done this step but seems to be easy, this procedure will use all your cores(lucky you with all those cores

) because in mine(semprom at 1600mhz) a similar procedure can take 3 - 4 hours