First of all, my problem is
solved, but I still want to
report it.
The resolution I have on my
KDE3 is 1440x900 at 60Hz
This is perfect for the display I have
Now, in KDE4, when I went to
PCC/hardware/Graphical server, there was
no provision for 1440x900 ( except for flat screen, which didn't work out well )
Then I got the brilliant idea to install Nvidia ( yup, i forgot about that for a while

), and under
PC/System/configuration/nvidia, I was able to choose 1440x900
Clicking
OK changed my desktop to what I wanted....> perfect
Clicking
save generated an error that nvidia couldn't make a backup of Xorg, or something to that extend
Now for the test >>>>.reboot>>> and after a full bootup,
I was in 1024x786 mode again.
I did this a few times , with same bad result.
Then I forced my computer to reboot in non-gui mode, and I used FXdrake to enter the values I wanted.
I rebooted,
et voila, I got a permanent 1440x900 desktop, time and time again
As I said, I just wanted to report this behavor, for those of us who like black magic. that in GUI mode, there is something weird going on

Starting to like KDE4 more and more
Xena