The host and guest are different computers so far as their OSes are concerned. You can use any Linux, any BSD, Windows, Solaris or anything else for x86 (usually including x86_64) in the guest.
However, if you want to use the same kernel in the guest as the host for some reason, just install it from Synaptic. Although the .pae is unlikely to be needed in a guest VM, it probably won't do any harm either.