okay and I found the file but I'm not quite sure where to put the parameters for I Acknowledge all COM port settings below get my menu.lst file
timeout 10
color black/cyan yellow/cyan
gfxmenu (hd2,0)/boot/gfxmenu
default 0
title PCLinuxOS-2011
kernel (hd2,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=PCLinuxOS-2011 root=UUID=671ef53c-b3f7-4ef7-941e-8a34a60560f6 quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=UUID=63589a97-2515-4ea8-85be-72cae6c7a81a splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd2,0)/boot/initrd.img
title Windows-7
root (hd0,0)
chainloader +1
title 2.6.38.8-pclos3.pae.bfs
kernel (hd2,0)/boot/vmlinuz-2.6.38.8-pclos3.pae.bfs BOOT_IMAGE=2.6.38.8-pclos3.pae.bfs root=UUID=671ef53c-b3f7-4ef7-941e-8a34a60560f6 quiet nokmsboot vmalloc=256M acpi=on resume=UUID=63589a97-2515-4ea8-85be-72cae6c7a81a splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd2,0)/boot/initrd-2.6.38.8-pclos3.pae.bfs.img