Neal,
Moving xkill to the other side where the other icons are makes not difference.
It
is setup to be an application launcher.
As far as adding lxtask, this would work fine... for me.
Unfortunately, this is my grandsons machine.
He is autistic with a language disability.
Communications with him is quite an effort.
Maybe in time this would work, but if I installed it now, and
showed him how to use it, I'm afraid he would just click on many
things and get himself more frustrated. (he flips chairs and such
when this happens).
So for now, this is not an option for him to use.
But thanks for the suggestion.

JohnW,
Some site are just heavier than others.
Problem is with both Firefox and Chrome.
At present, he prefers Chrome.
Hardware accel is enabled in Firefox... can't find setting in Chrome.
Machine has no other video issues at all.
No package conflicts either.
Maybe just too much for this machine.
Yeah, flash just sucks on some site.