between red and blue

[AndrzejL]

thanks for those words AndrzejL

No worries T6. And don't beat yourself over this to much. You either CAN get her back or You CAN'T. Did You made a mistake and need to apologize? Did she hurt Your feelings? What was the REAL reason... Now can You fix it? If You cannot - let it go... If You feel that You can get her back but You would have to do something that makes You feel really bad inside - don't do it... You have certain beliefs and from a lack of better word "pride" (or dignity if it's better) now if getting her back means betrayal of beliefs or reducing your dignity to 0 then You better stop right now and rethink it all very well.

You will be fine.

Andy

[Crow]

thanks for those words AndrzejL

No worries T6. And don't beat yourself over this to much. You either CAN get her back or You CAN'T. Did You made a mistake and need to apologize? Did she hurt Your feelings? What was the REAL reason... Now can You fix it? If You cannot - let it go... If You feel that You can get her back but You would have to do something that makes You feel really bad inside - don't do it... You have certain beliefs and from a lack of better word "pride" (or dignity if it's better) now if getting her back means betrayal of beliefs or reducing your dignity to 0 then You better stop right now and rethink it all very well.

You will be fine.

Andy

+1 to what AndrzejL said.

[T6]

"Take care and wait. Maybe times will improve"

the problem is the time, can't say more

thank you AndrzejL for those words

the problem here is so complex, i'm afraid that you are right, if i can't fix it, i have to let her go

and just that is what i don't want to do

as in most relationships, everything begins with a friendship but when you let feelings grow out of control when two persons are too different, well, most times there is only one result

good to see that some of you guys could find love, that person to share, live a good life